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One Pink Line by Dina Silver

7th May 2012

*I received a copy of One Pink Line from the author, Dina Silver in exchange for an honest review.

It’s finals week of her senior year, and Sydney’s in the middle of the hardest test – Spanish – when she realizes she hasn’t had her period. She gets to Wal-Mart before closing and buys a pregnancy test, hoping for one pink line that will tell her she’s not pregnant. Instead, Sydney sees two fuschia lines – one reminding her of her drunken one-night stand with one of her best friends and the other shaming her and reminding her of her loyal boyfriend Ethan.

Grace, on the other hand, is just a teenager, a taller-than-average teenager, but a hormonal, growing, moody teen all the same. At nine, after a lecture on sex education, she realizes her dad, who married her mom when Grace was two, can’t be her real dad. Devastated, she is angry at her mom, the man who calls himself her dad, and her real dad – the man who wanted nothing to do with her, and her anger and confusion follow her for years.

One Pink Line by Dina Silver is a story of mother and daughter – Sydney and Grace – who they are and how they become the women they are now. But One Pink Line is also the story of Sydney and her mother – a mom who is exacting and unforgiving of Sydney, Sydney and her older sister Kendra who acts as a surrogate mother to her and a go-between for Sydney and their mother, Grace and her paternal grandmother and aunts. It’s a story of being a woman with all its implicit joys and pains and about the men we allow to be a part of that.

Because at its heart, One  Pink Line is a love story. Ethan is good and kind and handsome, loving Sydney when she isn’t even sure who she is, but patiently biding his time. There’s no question of “if” for Sydney and Ethan, it’s a “when,” but that certainly doesn’t detract from the romance of One Pink Line. The absence of the will-she-or-won’t-she storyline allows it to be much more than just about romantic love. Family is central to the book, as is the question of who and what makes up family.

Plus, it’s funny, and funny always helps. When Sydney realizes her period is late, she tries to think back:

I remembered the last time I’d had it though, because I was trapped in an English Lit lecture hall with no panty liner, no tampon, and no break for an hour. As soon as the bell rang I sprinted to the bathroom, only to discover the tampon dispenser hadn’t been refilled since the turn of the century. It was a long, slow walk home with a wad of parchment-like toilet paper shifting around in my panties.

I laughed so hard at this. Industrial toilet paper. Gotta love it. Or when Grace realizes her dad can’t be her biological father:

I took her through everything I’d just learned, as though she didn’t know. “So how could he have come along two years after I was born?”

I’ll never forget the look on Nurse Goode’s face. I’d stumped the panel, I’d taken that lovely, unassuming woman who could dispense Neosporin faster than the speed of light, and rendered her speechless. She was frozen, instant-read thermometer in hand, but frozen nonetheless. “Maybe we should call your mom?”

One Pink Line is funny and sweet, and it’s perfect for the start of summer. Plus, it’s a great example of self publishing done right.

Go here to read the first chapter. Buy this from Indiebound or for your Nook. (Pssst – it’s only $2.99 if you buy it on your Nook.)

Another Piece of My Heart by Jane Green

6th March 2012

*The publisher St. Martin’s Press sent me this book in exchange for an honest review.

Andi marries Ethan in her late 30s, but she’s glad she waited. She and Ethan are in love, and for the first time, Andi knows she’s with the right guy. The only thing lacking is a child of her own, and Ethan isn’t overly concerned as he already has two daughters, Sophia and Emily. Sophia adores Andi and has from the first time they met. Emily is another story. The first time she sees Ethan hold Andi’s hand, she shoves Andi out of the way, without a word of rebuke from Ethan. Andi wants Emily to, if not love her, accept her, but the harder Andi tries, the less Emily warms to her. Tension escalates as Emily enters adolescence and begins drinking and sneaking in at all hours. Andi doesn’t feel it’s her place to correct Emily, and Ethan is so fearful of losing Emily’s affection that he consistently fails to take up for Andi, pitting the two women against one another. When Emily gets pregnant, it will bring Andi’s marriage and her family to the breaking point, and she’s not sure she can take any more.

Is this book typical for me? Not at all. It has a pink cover, y’all. WITH a heart. However, I was in the mood for something a little different.

Did I want to ring Emily’s neck? You guys. This little youknowwhat so had it coming. Andi tried so hard to be there for her, and Emily just kept figuratively slapping her in the face. It was really difficult to watch Andi take so much crap over and over again.

What did I think of Ethan, who allowed his daughter to act this way? Gah. It’s rough because you could see how torn he was. He loves his wife. He loves his daughter. He gets to the point where he’s so incredibly frustrated that he just shuts down, and honestly, I can see how easily this could happen. He’s a good guy. He’s a loving husband and father, but he just cannot deal with these women.

So…overall impressions? I enjoyed this book. As a 30-year-old woman who hopes to someday marry, the idea of stepchildren is horrifying. This book did not lessen that. I admire people who mesh families and do it well because I can see how I would just out and out hate Emily. She’s as cruel as only a teenager can be, and it would be so difficult to feel as if you could not discipline a child who lived in your house and acted that way.

However, parts of this book I struggled with because of the unusual storytelling style. The novel is written in present tense, which usually doesn’t bother me, but it was pretty annoying here. Plus, the entire first half of the novel was told from Andi’s perspective. Suddenly, halfway through, the narrator begins to switch between Andi and Emily. Well, by that time, I pretty much couldn’t stand Emily and had no desire to hear what she had to say, and in my mind, she never redeemed herself enough that I enjoyed her narrative voice. She’s incredibly selfish whereas Andi, though she does make some mistakes, is largely generous and loving. Had Emily’s narrative voice come in sooner, it may have changed my feelings of INTENSE HATRED, though I’m not sure it really would have. The thing is, I know there are people out there just like her, so it’s really not far-fetched at all.

And last but certainly not least, did this book include salsa dancing? YES! If you don’t know, I love to salsa dance. I’ve been dancing for years and love a salsa club. Green includes a great scene where Andi and her friends go dancing, and it was perfect. She says, and I quote, “Dark, and sweaty, and filled with dark good-looking men eyeing the women up and down, they realized quickly that what was missing from these clubs was a threat. The men weren’t eyeing the women seductively, but rather to see who was a good dance, whom they would choose next, not as a lover, but merely a partner in the sensual beat.” This is what I love about salsa dancing. Going to a salsa club is a unique experience. You’re judged, not by how tiny your skirt is or how much boobage is hanging out, but by how you dance. It’s an amazing feeling, and I love that guys will ask you to dance, smile and dance with you and then settle you back in your seat with no expectation. It’s. Amazing.

So all in all, this book was outside my normal reading experience, but I enjoyed it. AND, the nice people at St. Martin’s Press have kindly offered a giveaway copy as the book is out this week. Leave me a comment telling me if you have any cruel stepmother/stepfather/stepchildren stories, and I’ll pick a winner by Sunday at midnight!

Buy this for your Nook. Or from Indiebound.

UPDATE: Giveaway closed. Congrats to brn2shop for winning! An email has been sent to you with instructions on how to claim your copy.